A Little Car Accident

Michael hates the term "accident" used meaning cars colliding. I think it makes it seem like it's not a huge deal. Like a little accident. Like a potty-training accident that takes a minute to clean up and then everyone goes back to what they were doing, hopefully a little more observant about what caused the accident and more careful to not repeat it.
Last Thursday, we were at the park, just like we have been every day for weeks for about an hour after Michael gets off work and before dinner and bedtime. But, this time, I really needed a crappy $1 sundae from McDonald's. Sometimes I need those. No big deal, right? It's a buck and it fulfills this crazy need I have for cheap, poor-quality ice cream and then I can go back to wanting delicious things. So, on the way home, Michael stopped at McDonald's and then we headed home. We were stopped at the light, about to turn right, when the car jumped forward with a big BUMP (or crash, or whatever sound effect it made). I looked at Michael and I said, "What just happened?" In my mind, it was an earthquake or something along those lines that caused the car to jump forward. What else could it have been, really? It was some kid on a date in a brand-new car. I felt bad for the kid. Temporary tags and all.
Police were called--Officer Winegar was not related to Bridger even though he looked just like him except with reddish brown hair--and our statements were taken. We hung out on a big road in Bountiful and let Rock run around in the grass a little, except it was a steep-ish incline to the parking lot below and he kept falling down, which was scary in any case, but then I was REALLY jumpy and stressed and I couldn't handle any fall. Bless his heart. We got home after bedtime and made the best of it, trying to eat dinner fast and rush through a bath calmly enough to get Rock to sleep as soon as possible (schedule changes aren't pleasant for anyone in this house).
We were okay, except for the huge expense of rushing out to buy a new car seat and incredibly high copays (gotta love private insurance). But the lingering pain is dreadful. We went to the instacare on Friday, about 16 hours after the initial impact. The dr there said, "Oh, it just sounds like you have the whiplash. Just don't lift anything and then, after a few days, stretch your neck and you'll be fine. It may be hard to not lift anything if you have that baby, but don't lift him more than you have to and you'll be fine."
Then I called my mom and my sister, both of whom have been rear-ended several times (bad luck? I don't know. Must be. How can you be rear-ended so many times by drunk drivers and not have incredibly bad luck?). And both had the same response, "JUST whiplash? Are you crazy? That totally messes you up. You need to be checked out by a specialist and get into PT as soon as you can." My sister's spine curve is still totally reversed from her last wreck. It's not something to just brush off. I know it's not the worst wreck ever, we're still alive and intact and Rock came out totally unscathed--what a blessing. I am so grateful that he didn't even know what was going on and the worst part of the ordeal was when the nurse tried to take his blood pressure.
However, my back is numb. And my hand goes numb every night. I don't really think that is something to just brush off--it's been over a week and my back is numb. So, we went back on Thursday (a week after the accident and six days after we went to the instacare in the first place) and a new Dr said we should have been referred to a specialist the first time. So, I made the appointments with the specialist when I got home. We can't get in until October 26th. I guess it's not that long of a wait for a specialist, but when my back is numb and it hurts to move quickly, it seems like forever, especially when my job is to chase around a 17-month-old kid with endless energy.
When Michael called our insurance adjustor the third time, she said that she didn't have any new information for us because fault was still being determined. Really? This kid rammed into us while we were stopped at a light. How hard is that to determine? There's a police report...
Then we found out that the kid didn't turn in the claim to his insurance. We submitted it and that takes longer for them to determine fault. This is a huge ordeal. I'm exhausted just thinking about it.
I didn't realize how expensive it is to be in a wreck. We have to pay for everything upfront and then wait to be reimbursed. Not that we have had a terrible amount of costs, but it's a lot when you live on a budget that doesn't include a separate category for "car wreck."
It's just a lot to deal with. The money is the least of it. It's just the most tangible thing. I can't imagine what would have happened if the wreck had been worse. I am so grateful that Rock wasn't hurt at all. I loved his car seat so much, and now I love it even more. That is something I will NEVER skimp on. Ever. It's too important to make sure my sweet baby is safe. That is why he sits rear-facing as long as possible--if he had been forward-facing, he would have been hurt the worst, and I couldn't handle that. He's so adorable and sweet and lovable and amazing and precious.
And now, we just have to focus on relaxing and getting better. The car can wait. It's not a big deal to drive around in a car that looks like it's been in a wreck if it still runs.

OnTrac SUCKS AGAIN

Seriously, OnTrac? What is up with all of this sucking? Why on earth do two delivery drivers know where I live and get packages here just fine while the REST OF YOU--INCLUDING SUPERVISORS--CANNOT READ DIRECTIONS and say my address doesn't exist? It makes me so sad. I do everything I can to avoid you, and every time I'm forced to use your "service," it's an utter disaster. I just want my Thirsties Hemp Inserts! I wish I could pay Amazon extra money to not use you. I would gladly pay twice as much to ensure that UPS delivers my packages every time and OnTrac never has to frustrate me ever again. That may be an exaggeration. I would gladly pay twice the shipping or, in the case of free shipping, 10-15% more of my total bill just to ensure that OnTrac doesn't get my business. I love that some companies let you choose to not use OnTrac. I don't care that it takes another day--what is one day when it takes a week longer for OnTrac to figure out where I live if my package ends up in the hands of someone other than the two guys who know how to get here? What a deal. More companies should follow suit.

I will never say anything about OnTrac again if I can help it.

Christmas Knitting

With almost all of my Christmas gifts knitted already (I haven't started one for my dad and I have about 200 hours left of work on my mother-in-law's super-secret surprise), I am looking for something new to do. I've decided to limit my family gift knitting to three hours a day so that I have time to work on my new Christmas project--using my stash yarn to knit sweaters to donate. I'm going to make a bunch of easy but cute sweaters in whatever colors I have that go together. I'm hoping to get three done by this Christmas and then one a month for next Christmas. So I'll donate three this year and 12 next year. What a fun idea! I can't wait to get started.

Oh, this reminds me that I have to take pictures of all of my summer knitting projects--I made three skirts for me (one of which I designed myself), a few pair of socks, I'm working on a super-secret gift for Laura...I guess that's it. But what a big deal! That is a TON of knitting. I'll post them soon.

But, in the meantime, I'm going to start on a seamless sweater TONIGHT! Yipee!

Dear Blogger:

I put two spaces after each period on purpose. Please stop "correcting" it to just one space. I like to live life deliberately, authentically, and you are totally throwing off my mojo. Also, I think two spaces looks better and gives me a mental breather before moving on to the next sentence, which, given my writing style is probably very labyrinthine and full of parenthetical statements, is very necessary.

All my Love,

Amanda

Rock Reading to Himself

I stepped out of the room to run potty, and I walked back in to find this, so I grabbed the camera and tried not to miss the moment, as I usually do.



I know I put this on facebook already, but I would rather have it on my blog.

It really is so cute. He's making the animal sounds like he does (pretty much all animals sound kind of like a monkey). He's trying out his new wolf, which was a pretty new sound for him when we recorded this video on August 1st-ish.

OnTrac Still Sucks

But one nice thing I can say about them is that they keep good records. I called OnTrac and they knew the exact time and reason I called a few hours before. They hadn't done anything about it, but at least they knew.

OnTrac Update (OnTrac Still Sucks)

Four phone calls later, on hold for a total of about 1.5 hours, and they are finally going to "error out" the delivery time. The driver is only 26.75 hours late. This is ridiculous. There is no new ETA, but the last supervisor I spoke to said that it looks like the driver "misdelivered" the package. How on earth did two other guys get here perfectly fine JUST TODAY and he has taken the last 30+ hours to find where I live? This is the company that keeps perfect directions for my address in the computer system--down to the last turn, things I don't even know. The last thing it says is IN THE SKYPARK AIRPORT UP THE OUTDOOR STAIRCASE ON THE SIDE FACING THE STREET.

I sent an email to Diapers.com about the package and someone called me right back! It was crazy. The girl was so nice and she said that they could change me over to a national shipper, just that my future orders would take a day longer. Who cares if it takes a day longer as long as it actually gets here when it says it will? She said that regional shippers are faster than national. I think the regional shippers just fudge their numbers so they LOOK like they are faster. They are not faster nor are they better. Just better at lying. So often, the package says it was delivered hours and hours before it's ever delivered.

The girl at Diapers.com told me a different story than I heard any of the four times I called OnTrac--how many lies can they tell? Did they lie to her, too? All that I know is that the package finally says that it hasn't been delivered yet and, if they can't deliver it tonight, Diapers.com is going to have them send the package back and they'll send me a new one from a national shipper (I have my fingers crossed for UPS).